Man charged in woman’s death after police find decomposing body in basement

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Danita Brown appears in this 2008 photo provided by her fiance Mike Tibbetts.
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Danita Brown in a photo provided by her sister.
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Police investigate the death of Danita Brown at 417 Main Street in Lewiston.  They arrested and charged Bob Ryder, 20, formerly of Litchfield, as a suspect in the case.
Amber Waterman | Sun Journal
Police investigate the death of Danita Brown at 417 Main Street in Lewiston. They arrested and charged Bob Ryder, 20, formerly of Litchfield, as a suspect in the case.

AUBURN, Maine — A Lewiston man has been charged with killing a 38-year-old woman whose decomposing body was found in the basement of his Main Street apartment earlier this week.

Danita Brown of New Gloucester died from blunt-force head trauma, according to a Maine State Police affidavit filed in Androscoggin County Superior Court on Friday.

Bob W. Ryder, 20, now faces a murder charge. Ryder has been held in Androscoggin County Jail on a charge of violating his probation since early Tuesday morning. His appearance in court to hear the new charge against him has been scheduled for 1 p.m. Tuesday, July 19.

According to a sworn affidavit written by Maine State Police Detective Scott Gosselin, Ryder told his Alcoholics Anonymous sponsor that he hit Brown in the head with a clock and killed her, then buried her body under wood in the corner of the basement under his first-floor apartment. That sponsor, Floyd Nadeau, told police Monday night about Ryder’s confession.

Nadeau told police that Ryder told him about killing Brown about 2½ weeks earlier when Nadeau was at Ryder’s apartment. Ryder identified Brown as a prostitute and said he had caught her going through his wallet before he killed her. Nadeau doubted Ryder’s confession, so Ryder took Nadeau into the basement and showed him Brown’s body, according to the affidavit.

Nadeau said he was reluctant to go to police with the information for fear of breaking the AA confidentiality agreement. Nadeau’s AA sponsor persuaded him to report the alleged crime. Nadeau provided police with details about the location of the body.

Later that night, Lewiston police went to Ryder’s apartment and found him there. After reportedly getting permission from Ryder for a search, police gained access to the basement through a trap door in a closet. A detective descended a ladder into the basement and, smelling the odor of decomposition, found Brown’s body. He took pictures of the body and the basement area.

Ryder later was interviewed at the Lewiston police station on Park Street. He told Lewiston and Maine State Police detectives that he and Nadeau had met Brown when they went cruising on Pine Street for a prostitute, Gosselin’s affidavit says. Ryder said he paid Brown a total of $200 over a period of several days during which she would leave to buy drugs. They eventually had sex, but he became angry when she complained about her family and personal problems.

After Brown took money from his wallet, Ryder became “enraged,” the affidavit said. Ryder, who served in the U.S. Marines and said he had been discharged because of mental health problems, told police he blacked out and experienced a post-traumatic stress disorder flashback, which caused him to hit Brown in the head several times with a large wooden clock he kept beside his bed. He said he hadn’t cleaned her blood off the clock.

When he realized she was dead, Ryder moved her body to the basement where it was coolest, he told police. She was naked below the waist. He buried her pants and underpants in the basement.

Ryder said Nadeau advised him to use baking soda to help remove the odor from Brown’s corpse, so he used his food stamp card at a nearby store to buy a package of it, he told police.

On Friday, after becoming aware of Ryder’s explanation to police, Nadeau strenuously denied advising him to cover the odor. “I had nothing to do with it,” Nadeau said, “and I’ve been cleared.”

Although Nadeau and Ryder had referred to Brown as Bernadette, Ryder identified Danita Brown from a photograph police showed him.

Two detectives from the Lewiston Police Department and Maine State Police interviewed Nadeau shortly before 1:30 a.m. Tuesday. He gave a similar account of meeting Brown with Ryder. He said Ryder described his fatal encounter with Brown, telling Nadeau that he hit her with his wall clock after he discovered she had looked in his wallet. He said Ryder showed him Brown’s body, but she was dressed in jeans and a tank top and had a white cloth on her head. Nadeau said he told Ryder to keep him out of it and that it was Ryder’s problem.

Police also interviewed Ryder’s brother Melvin Ryder-Barry, who had lived in the Main Street apartment since April.

Ryder-Barry told police Bob Ryder had a woman at the apartment one night, and Ryder-Barry woke up early the next morning to the sound of a female groaning. Ryder was pacing in the next room, asking the woman, “Are you OK?”

When the two brothers talked later, Ryder explained that the woman had been a virgin. Ryder-Barry told police he found a red spot on Ryder’s bedsheets the next day.

Police technicians found underpants, a reddish-brown sheet and a pair of sneakers buried in the dirt near Brown’s body. Police also found blood on the mattress of Ryder’s bed.

The last outgoing call on Brown’s cell phone was made at 1:41 a.m. on June 16; her last text message was sent two minutes later, police said.

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  • Anonymous

    before any of the holier-than-thou arrives to offer up the obligatory volley of snarky comments directed toward the victim….she was as deserving to live life in the pursuit of her hopes and dreams as anyone here…

  • Anonymous

    I didnt think this story would have sooo much detail. Its sad, somethings need not be said. I feel bad for her and her family :(

  • Anonymous

    I didnt think this story would have sooo much detail. Its sad, somethings need not be said. I feel bad for her and her family :(

  • Anonymous

    Wow! Since when is picking up a prostitute an AA sponsor’s role? Maybe if this behavior had been addressed by this guy’s mentor this would not have happened.

  • Anonymous

    now a lawyer is going to get him off by saying he wasn’t criminally responsible because he blacked out. This guy deserves the needle, and if he doesn’t get that, he should get thrown in a hole to rot for the rest of his life like he did to this innocent woman.

  • Anonymous

    You do understand that Maine has no death penalty and has for a very long time.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1648466585 Dawn Bouchard

    His AA sponser is not to blame for this..no one is but himself…so don’t defend him by saying his AA sponser should have addressed his behavior problems..

  • Anonymous

    He got mad after she complained about her family???? That doesn’t even make seance….. You, killed her!!!!! she was in your basement!!!!!!! LIFE , BYE< BYE!!!!!!!!!  IdI*T!!!!!!!! LOO*ER!!!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/John-Machias/100001664240905 John Machias

    Wow.  Yes, this has a lot of detail to digest. I am very sorry for this woman’s family that her good name and reputation are put in the mud at the end of her life. It seems obvious that she was desperate in order to get to the point of allegedly selling her  body for money, and for this reaosn alone she  deserves respect at the end of life.
     
    And yet: I have women friends who are deeply into alanon and AA…. this needs to be a cautionary tale for well-meaning people who get to the point where they have hit rock bottom and can’t find a friend any other way. so so very sad.
     
    My own therapist once told me” never date anybody you meet at AA or Alanon!” 
     
    You bet your behind that the AA sponsor should have dealt with this, sooner they he did.  AA operate uinder the radar to a large degree and they prefer it that way, patly to avoid getting into messes like this. The twelve steps is only part of the key to AA and Alanon – they “sponsor system” is a key component of the support they offer people. I am astounded that somehow this “sponsor”  thought that spending an evening to solicit prostitutes with his buddy, was somehow acceptable, or that withholding information about a heinous crime for nearly three weeks was part of his role via AA. 
     
    AA and Alano are a group that reaches out to the people in society who are in terrible need. The people they serve are often society’s rejects and fall through every crack, but methinks  AA and Alanon need to think about how they are supervising these “sponsors”.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/John-Machias/100001664240905 John Machias

    Wow.  Yes, this has a lot of detail to digest. I am very sorry for this woman’s family that her good name and reputation are put in the mud at the end of her life. It seems obvious that she was desperate in order to get to the point of allegedly selling her  body for money, and for this reaosn alone she  deserves respect at the end of life.
     
    And yet: I have women friends who are deeply into alanon and AA…. this needs to be a cautionary tale for well-meaning people who get to the point where they have hit rock bottom and can’t find a friend any other way. so so very sad.
     
    My own therapist once told me” never date anybody you meet at AA or Alanon!” 
     
    You bet your behind that the AA sponsor should have dealt with this, sooner they he did.  AA operate uinder the radar to a large degree and they prefer it that way, patly to avoid getting into messes like this. The twelve steps is only part of the key to AA and Alanon – they “sponsor system” is a key component of the support they offer people. I am astounded that somehow this “sponsor”  thought that spending an evening to solicit prostitutes with his buddy, was somehow acceptable, or that withholding information about a heinous crime for nearly three weeks was part of his role via AA. 
     
    AA and Alano are a group that reaches out to the people in society who are in terrible need. The people they serve are often society’s rejects and fall through every crack, but methinks  AA and Alanon need to think about how they are supervising these “sponsors”.

  • Anonymous

    I will agree  with the last part of your comment.  From the comments I have read so far, You are the only one to bring up such a demented view of this as expressed in your first sentence. What’s up with that ?

  • Anonymous

    yes i realize that, which is why i said “and if not that” But i would suggest for a monster like this, fly him down to Texas and throw him to the front of the line. he is undeserving of life, he is nothing but an ugly, evil, belly to the ground murderer

  • Anonymous

    Oh im sorry, blah blah blah, i did it cause i (insert your loser reason why you did it here)..This made me sick reading all the details…Every state in the USA needs the death penelty..Kill this puke and dont shed a tear, fn peice of s%£t….And his AA whatever buddie? Him and his brother both need to see the inside of a cell for keeping their mouths shut…We are way to soft on this crap…Makes me sick

  • Anonymous

    Oh im sorry, blah blah blah, i did it cause i (insert your loser reason why you did it here)..This made me sick reading all the details…Every state in the USA needs the death penelty..Kill this puke and dont shed a tear, fn peice of s%£t….And his AA whatever buddie? Him and his brother both need to see the inside of a cell for keeping their mouths shut…We are way to soft on this crap…Makes me sick

  • Anonymous

    Oh im sorry, blah blah blah, i did it cause i (insert your loser reason why you did it here)..This made me sick reading all the details…Every state in the USA needs the death penelty..Kill this puke and dont shed a tear, fn peice of s%£t….And his AA whatever buddie? Him and his brother both need to see the inside of a cell for keeping their mouths shut…We are way to soft on this crap…Makes me sick

  • Anonymous

    Oh im sorry, blah blah blah, i did it cause i (insert your loser reason why you did it here)..This made me sick reading all the details…Every state in the USA needs the death penelty..Kill this puke and dont shed a tear, fn peice of s%£t….And his AA whatever buddie? Him and his brother both need to see the inside of a cell for keeping their mouths shut…We are way to soft on this crap…Makes me sick

  • Anonymous

    How can you be a prostitute AND a virgin.  This guy makes no sense at all.  My sympathies to her fiance.

  • http://www.facebook.com/susan.b.clark Sue

    I don’t know where you read he (they) met her at AA. 

    I understand confidentiality myself, having worked in the emergency medical field. However, I think only lawyers and priest can cloak themselves under that guise when it comes to a crime, especially murder.

    The sponsor, although he may not have done the actual killing, had some culpability nonetheless. I wouldn’t be surprised to see some charges against him. If you don’t report a property damage accident within a timely manner, you are charged and fined. Not reporting a murder in a timely manner and nothing? 

    I too am still shaking my head at the thought that an AA sponsor would find it acceptable to go “cruisin’ for women” with his charge.

  • http://www.facebook.com/susan.b.clark Sue

    I don’t know where you read he (they) met her at AA. 

    I understand confidentiality myself, having worked in the emergency medical field. However, I think only lawyers and priest can cloak themselves under that guise when it comes to a crime, especially murder.

    The sponsor, although he may not have done the actual killing, had some culpability nonetheless. I wouldn’t be surprised to see some charges against him. If you don’t report a property damage accident within a timely manner, you are charged and fined. Not reporting a murder in a timely manner and nothing? 

    I too am still shaking my head at the thought that an AA sponsor would find it acceptable to go “cruisin’ for women” with his charge.

  • Anonymous

    May she R.I.P. and condolences to her family. This guy was really a sicko, he could just as easily just told her to leave but he lost it. His sponsor had a duty to report this right away, not over 2 weeks later. Bet he gets off with the insanity plea. He deserves a nice full life in prison.

  • 525_44

    Can’t believe a thing coming out of this guy’s mouth. Sounds like he doesn’t know how to tell the truth or the difference between a virgin and a prostitute.

    Apparently he is aware enough to know what he did by showing others what he did to this poor woman.

  • PaulNotBunyan

    I think that lawyers, clergy, psychiatrists, journalists, etc. are required to report that a death has occurred and they are required to report if their client is a serious public safety threat. They can cite confidentiality rights when they are asked to testify.

  • Anonymous

    if you agree with the last part of my comment, i shouldn’t have to dumb down the first part in order for you to understand…

  • Anonymous

    I am certainly not defending him but if he never picked her up in the beginning he would not have had the opportunity to kill her. I think the sponsor may have been able to do a bit more to call him on his behavior and report it in a timely fashion but I agree that the responsibility lies mainly with the killer.

  • PaulNotBunyan

    John, I was very active in Alateen at one time. My mom was in Al-anon and most of my Alateen friends had a parent in Al-anon. Some of them also had a parent in AA. I’m sure AA has some kind of “sponsor training” guidelines and I’m sure they are often ignored. Back then, the thing AA leadership liked to hear most is that somebody wanted to organize a new chapter. AA advocacy and evangelism was a top priority. The best thing Alateen did for me is that I hooked up with kids who understood why we had to make sure the coast is clear every time we want to visit each other’s homes. The best times we had were when somebody’s boozer parent was in jail or a rehab facility. The Al-anon parent would let us get together and hang out in the home.

  • PaulNotBunyan

    John, I was very active in Alateen at one time. My mom was in Al-anon and most of my Alateen friends had a parent in Al-anon. Some of them also had a parent in AA. I’m sure AA has some kind of “sponsor training” guidelines and I’m sure they are often ignored. Back then, the thing AA leadership liked to hear most is that somebody wanted to organize a new chapter. AA advocacy and evangelism was a top priority. The best thing Alateen did for me is that I hooked up with kids who understood why we had to make sure the coast is clear every time we want to visit each other’s homes. The best times we had were when somebody’s boozer parent was in jail or a rehab facility. The Al-anon parent would let us get together and hang out in the home.

  • Anonymous

    “he blacked out and experienced a post-traumatic stress disorder
    flashback, which caused him to hit Brown in the head several times”…he is pretty clear what happen huh?  I say he fully knew what he did…….time for a long long time in Jail……next case!

  • Anonymous

    “he blacked out and experienced a post-traumatic stress disorder
    flashback, which caused him to hit Brown in the head several times”…he is pretty clear what happen huh?  I say he fully knew what he did…….time for a long long time in Jail……next case!

  • Anonymous

    “he blacked out and experienced a post-traumatic stress disorder
    flashback, which caused him to hit Brown in the head several times”…he is pretty clear what happen huh?  I say he fully knew what he did…….time for a long long time in Jail……next case!

  • http://twitter.com/TheHumbleFarmer Robert Karl Skoglund

    A reader asks, “How can you be a prostitute AND a virgin.”

    Well, you can be inordinately picky.

    The humble Farmer

  • http://twitter.com/TheGuardianMH The Guardian

    Are you joking  – the sponsor didn’t go to the police about murder??  You CAN violate confidentiality if someone is murdered.  Ever hear of Mandated Reporting? Actually I think it’s illegal to cover up a murder for any reason.  

    A dead body in his basement.  How sick. 

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