Julie Murchison Harris

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So what did I really do this summer?

on Aug. 29, 2016, at 3:53 p.m.
As the days visibly shorten and the night air takes on a kind of crispness, I find myself evaluating what I’ve accomplished over the summer before my mind turns to all that needs to be done before God coats my world in ice and snow. It’s been a very busy …
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How my husband’s spirit was part of my daughter’s wedding

on Aug. 22, 2016, at 12:40 p.m.
My newly adopted daughter Jessica and I have seen a lot of changes already this year. She was graduated from University of Maine with a degree in social work; I legally adopted her through an adult adoption process; and on a recent Sunday, I walked her down the aisle, then …
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Why I feel close to a woman I never met

on Aug. 15, 2016, at 12:56 p.m.
I never met her in person. She died at age 30 from complications associated with Lupus the year I joined the flyball (think dog relay racing) team with my Brittany dog Sassy. But she was the reason there was a team at all. She was its founder.Story continues below advertisement. …
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Gardening my way back to my old self

on Aug. 08, 2016, at 2:10 p.m.
I’m sure lots of people are eating green beans for supper these days. They are in season, and most farmers markets and many local food stores carry the locally grown versions of the popular legume. I recently ate them for supper myself. With a bow to a good memory, I …
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Remembering what the Bangor State Fair was like in the 1970s

on Aug. 01, 2016, at 5:51 p.m.
We worked all year toward one goal — showing our prize steers and lambs at Bangor State Fair. In the 1970s as a teen, I was a member of Penobscot County 4-H Beef Club. My first bull calf came from the baby beef auction at Fryeburg Fair in the fall. …
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How the dog’s 10th birthday brings up dealing with loss

on July 25, 2016, at 3:25 p.m.
My husband Jim and I lost our 13-year-old Brittany dog, Rosie, to congestive heart failure two days before my birthday in May 2006. At the time, Rosie was our only dog, and the hole she left in our lives was enormous. She was a very special dog for both of …
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Figuring out how the pieces fit into my life

on July 18, 2016, at 12:44 p.m.
I have books everywhere. I am one of those dinosaurs who has not graduated to electronic books, and still considers turning paper pages a comforting and enjoyable process. I love getting new books and have trouble parting with books I have read but will never read again and really am …
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10 things I miss since my husband’s death

on July 11, 2016, at 12:31 p.m.
The trouble with being on the road a lot is that I have too much time to think, and I’ve been on the road at least 90 percent of the weekends since mid-March. It wasn’t my fault I was on the road so much — well, it was, but it …
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Independence Day means more than personal holiday memories

on July 04, 2016, at 11:50 a.m.
Holidays feel odd to me. They encourage an intensity of spirit, emotion and physical exertion that no other days of the year do. They heighten anticipation with planned events, and never quite live up to our imaginations. They give us hope, pull at our heartstrings, and let us celebrate or …
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How a deck so full of memories has become a place of peace

on June 27, 2016, at 6 a.m.
It’s been awhile since I’ve really wanted to sit on my back deck. But on a recent Sunday morning, I found myself sitting there in my PJs and robe, drinking a hot beverage and listening to the sounds of birds and dogs and feeling the gentle breezes of a new …
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Parting with the physical reminders of happy days is the hardest part

on June 20, 2016, at 6 a.m.
My best friend from high school and I shared apartments when we were in our early 20s. She had just returned to the area from two years at Vanderbilt University and secured a clerk job while she contemplated her next move. I had just returned from two years at Skidmore …
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What step am I on in this journey?

on June 13, 2016, at 1:04 p.m.
The thing about a journey is that once in awhile you have to stop and see where you are. It’s important to reflect on where you’ve been and to anticipate where you might be heading, but at times those considerations are not as important as where you are. And I …
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The abnormal burden of ‘normal’ errands

on June 06, 2016, at 1:16 p.m.
I never used to give normal errands much thought. You know the ones I mean: vehicle maintenance and repairs, groceries, prescriptions, salt for the water softening system, taking the recycling to the bins at the town office, going to the transfer station, registering vehicles, paying taxes, veterinarian appointments, getting dog …
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How adoption is a special kind of love story

on May 30, 2016, at 6 a.m.
There was a little girl who was one of four children. She ended up in foster care because her parents made bad choices of addiction and lawlessness, and her grandmother, who had taken over her care, had issues too and left her on the doorstep at the Maine Department of …
American flags wait for Brewer Boy Scouts to place them on veterans' graves at Brewer's Woodlawn Memorial Park Cemetery last year.

2016 Maine Memorial Day events

By Julie Harris on May 24, 2016, at 6:14 p.m.
ABBOT — Abbot Memorial Day parade, organized by American Legion Posts Conner-Trafton No. 119 of Guilford and Stott-Flanders No. 165 of Sangerville, 9:30 a.m. Monday, May 30, starting at the town office and ending at the veterans memorial. BANGOR — Greater Bangor Area 2016 Memorial Day Parade, organized by Bangor …
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Remembering the little things that catch my heart

on May 23, 2016, at 12:56 p.m.
The little things that we miss because they can never happen again; the little things we miss because we know they would have happened.
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How I am reclaiming our house as my home

on May 16, 2016, at 1:14 p.m.
I was sitting in my living room the other evening, stretched out in my favorite recliner, while I worked on a crochet project. My 5-year-old Brittany dog Thistle was curled up like a little caterpillar in my lap. Her son, 2-year-old Quincy, was stretched out beside me in the chair. …
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Sending out an olive branch to myself

on May 09, 2016, at 12:20 p.m.
I have a love-hate relationship with my forsythia bush. It was on my property before it was my property, having been planted at the end of a hedge of bridal wreath spirea by an owner or two before me. Its full and beautiful yellow blooms entice me in spring. I …
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Belfast Bound Book Festival to feature talk, workshop by Maine author

By Julie Harris on May 05, 2016, at 10:21 a.m.
Saturday, May 7, 2016 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. Location: Waterfall Arts, 256 High St., Belfast, Maine For more information: 338-3884, ext. 10 BELFAST — Maine Author Elizabeth Peavey will give a talk at 11 a.m. Saturday, May 7, in the dance annex at Waterfall Arts, 256 High St. Her …
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Dealing with the scars left by the rituals of death

on May 02, 2016, at 12:28 p.m.
Funerals tend to take on a life of their own. There are the expected initial arrangements to transport the body of the deceased to the funeral home or whatever other institution is supposed to handle it. Then comes the notification of relatives and friends about the death, the meeting with …