MONROE, Connecticut — A Maine woman who police said sexually assaulted a 14-year-old boy she met through an online computer game has been arrested.
Cassandra Grant, 22, of Rockland turned herself in Monday on charges of second-degree sexual assault and risk of injury to a minor, police said.
She was released after posting $10,000 bail and is scheduled to appear in Superior Court in Bridgeport March 21.
According to a press release from Monroe police, the boy and Grant met online a year ago while playing “Call of Duty: Modern Warfare” on Sony Playstation 3. The boy was 14 at the time, and Grant was 21.
The two developed a relationship by texting, calling, and using a web camera, the release states. They had a face-to-face meeting in December 2011, police said, adding, “At that point, the two reportedly engaged in sexual intercourse.”
The boy’s parents called police in December when they learned Grant’s true age, police said.
Monroe officers worked with the Maine State Police Computer Crimes Unit on the investigation, which included forensic analysis of both the Sony Playstation 3 and cell phones, police said.
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People have no shame, Look at her, another one smiling for the mug shot.
I know this girl, to me she looks like she is trying not to cry, not smiling, she’s actually a nice girl but has very low self esteem, that doesn’t make it right, but she isn’t a monster. I feel bad for all involved.
I don’t believe she is a monster just very troubled but, if this were a man you know everyone would be calling for his blood.
So the man is a monster but the woman is just sooooooo sad? Boy, am I glad we don’t see a double standard here…
Not what I said. But you are right about double standard.
Low self esteem or not, she should know right from wrong shouldn’t she?
I know her to Syndisue, and you are correct, she’s an amazing girl who got put in a bad situation. There is absolutely no way this would have happened if SHE had known HIS real age. I can assure you of that.
Im sorry if I am misunderstanding you. You mention that she did not know his real age. Are you saying that when she met him in person she was not able to determine that he was a young teenager?
I know her too and I’m sure if people really knew who she was then they wouldn’t have such negative things to say about her. Lets try the fact that she has put herself through college and recently graduated working 3 jobs just so she can have a degree under her belt. Although I don’t know how she couldn’t see he was so young when they met in person, she is paying for her actions. I’m sure if she did know his age then she DEFF would have never thrown away the YEARS she spent in school trying to make a name for herself. It just sickens me that people are on here running their mouths when they literally don’t even know the full story. They just read an article with a few paragraphs in it stating the worst part of the situation and they think it is okay to go online and run their mouths about people they don’t know. Also, I know you too Lisa XD shhh
wtaf those people that are “running their mouths” are commenting about an adult that allegedly engaged in sexual intercourse with a minor. There was an 8 year difference between your friend and the teenage BOY she allegedly had sex with.
It doesn’t matter that she worked “3 jobs” or that she “put herself through college” or that she had “a degree under her belt”. Educated people do BAD things all the time. People with college degrees do BAD things all the time.
What matters is she made a choice and that choice will have an impact on the rest of her life. She made a bad choice and will pay for that bad choice. She made a choice and she now needs to accept the consequences of that choice.
LOL!! First, why don’t you calm down. I never once said in my statement that it was okay that she did this. I even said that she was paying for her actions. So you might wanna read the WHOLE comment before you attempt to jump down peoples throats :D
ALSO, I did not say she was my friend. I said that I knew her.
First off I did read your complete post and frankly I found that you were attempting to make her the victim….
“she has put herself through college”…
“recently graduated working 3 jobs”…
“so she can have a degree under her belt”…
“I don’t know how she couldn’t see he was so young”…
“if she did know his age then she DEFF would have never thrown away the
YEARS she spent in school trying to make a name for herself”…
Do you even care about the 14 year old boy in this case? I sure can’t tell.
“she’s an amazing girl who got put in a bad situation”?
Let’s assume for the moment that she is/was “an amazing girl”. Who put her “in a bad situation”?
I do know that sometimes people smile or laugh when they are in a very stressful situation . At times people will often start to yawn if their level of anxiety is high. In any case something -her children (if she has them) and parents will be proud of. NOT.
Poor kid !!!!
Although this is totally horrible for both parties. I would just like to say, WHAT KIND OF PARENT LETS THEIR CHILD MEET STRANGERS OFFLINE!!! Like, seriously!
the same ones that meet strangers drunk at a bar……
yeah well, that situation is okay. 21 to be at a bar. the internet can be used by any age. :)
hate to break it to you, but there are plenty or minors/underage drinkers at the bars.. Fake ID’s are everywhere, most are very good copies.. some even the numbers, and names match.
If parents let their children so to bars it is just as wrong as parents letting children meet people offline. Just saying..
I have a pretty good idea that the parents didn’t know. Yes, they should probably pay more attention to what the kid is doing on line but playing video games?? This is a sick world. She needs to be punished and he needs some teaching!
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i think he was taught
You’re talking to them now! on here..
So i am to assume that you know where your teenager is 24/7…If so, then you are not only one of the few single income families, but also very lucky because there are still ways for teens to break away, when they say they are someplace else..14 year old boy, 21 year old girl…yep, guilty of that myself, and i would reckon many of us are…sorry.
Isn’t that awful
yes Maine! love how shes cracking up in her side shot… Only in the Bangor Daily!!!!
Call of Duty or Booty Call ?
Call of Booty
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lmao !!!
Double standard or not, I would have been plenty happy if that happened to me at 14
Still, you have to look at this and say, “really?” It takes a messed up person to be turned on by a kid.
I wish it would have too, daved931, and that you got the girl pregnant first time and every time after untill someone determined that your nuts were the problem
Good comment.
I wonder who traveled to where for this? With all these kids jumping on a bus these days, he might’ve been the one (although, if he saw her on a webcam first, why?). :)
She went down there and I’m assuming he did know what she looked like because they were dating for over a year.. That’s what the papers say..
Thanx. 11 hours ago, the BDN said they had been video camming, but only that they’d ‘met’ for the dirty deed.
when they take the mug shot do they say, “smile?” does anybody know? why would you smile for a mug shot?
HaHaHAHa, Good one.
And the parents seem to have had no problem with their son “getting some” until they found out how old she was.
“The boy’s parents called police in December when they learned Grant’s true age, police said.” Yup that line got me to wondering. Sally: George doesn’t she seem a little older than 14? George: Naw she just looks that way. We can’t hold Junior up anymore, this is his chance for a little action. Sally: Ah George…isn’t that sweet?
It’s quite interesting how everyone is cracking jokes about this. If this was a situation that involved a 22-year-old male meeting up with a 14-year-old girl for a sexual encounter, the atmosphere here would be completely different.
You are 100% correct. I would think that a lot of these comments might be considered offensive in that scenario as well. I raised two girls in this mess and all I can say is what a wonderful world, not.
It happens all the time when the suspect is a woman and the victim is a teenage or younger male.
Oh, Hey everybody, look HERE !!
jd2008jd,, (Maines’ SSM Poster”boy”) is an Expert on Women & HETEROSEXUALITY Now !!
Wow what’s next ?!?
Flying PIGS in Tutus & Petticoats ???????
LOL, I’m just joking jd2008jd , don’t get your *Panties* in a bunch. ;=}
Doesn’t look like I am the one with bunched up *Panties* ;)
Seems like you behave as though they are most of the time, when you are beating your Dead Horse *ssm* “poor little neglected me I’m a homosexual nobody loves me” crap.
Life is short, so get over *IT*.
See ya’ in Nov. ,,, poor sport loser waste more taxpayer $$$,,,,
*John Dough 2008 Jane Dough*
Well…Well…Well…odd that you completely changed your post “poor” from what was in my inbox.
This is what I received at 1:52 AM: “Let me guess,,,,,,hhhhhmmmmm,,,,You’re not one of them Rebel “Comandos” are ya’ ?? Wait, wait,,,,, don’t tell me PPPLLLLLEEEEEaaaaaaseeee!!!!! Just the thot is too much. Don’t need TMI, might put me off the bridge. I even put diapers on my St. Bernard,,,, & her name just happens to be….JD ! /:”
Why did you change it? Don’t you stand by your posts?
By the way, I am straight male that has been married for 25+ years. Hard for you to understand why someone that is straight would support SSM. So in your world everyone that supports SSM must be gay….you are so wrong and on so many levels to.
But the only thing you are correct about is we vote in November. And win or lose, homosexuals will still continue to fight for marriage equality. And when it finally lands at the feet of the SCOTUS I hope that you will be ready, because your life will not change when they decide SSM is permissible and Constitutional.
Funny that anyone would need to affirm their heterosexuality…. or for that matter their whiteness, or their religion, or their ethnic background.
I wish all you folks wouldn’t do this as I have a real good time IMAGINING what you are….really.
Seems to me Harry that the opponents of SSM are the ones that keep making ASSUMPTIONS about those of us that do support SSM. When those ASSUMPTIONS are made most of us will answer them.
Sorry if those affirmations spoil you sexual fantasies Harry.
Just trying to get ya’ goin’ jd, see if you’re paying attention and are really serious about this ssm thang.
It’s quite a waste of time in reallity considering homos choose their lifestyle and aren’t black, asian, native american…etc. you get the point.
If the homos just kept their traps shut, after all they are privy to all const. rights like everyone else, then life would be good for them and all else.
So, congrats on the 25+ yrs marriage {30+ here) and we’ll see what happens in Nov.
Did you choose to be straight?
Did you choose to be a human being with Male Genitalia that is only intended for Liquid Bodily Fluid waste removal *AND* the Only supply of Semen (Sperm) for Fertilizing the Female Egg produced from the Ovum ?!?!?
poormainah2012 I will take that as a “no I did not choose to be straight”. Well if you didn’t choose, why do you think someone that is homosexual does?
Explain why someone would subject themselves to your post if they had a choice not to?
It’s a Spiritual issue.
We are either children of Satan,,,,
OR….. Children of the One and Only Lord God Jesus the Christ.
THAT… therein, is the fact Where the Real choice is made.
Like it or not,,, them’s the Facts.
End of ” my dog is bigger than your dog” stuff.
See ya’ @ November !
Just out of curiosity, what did Jesus say about homosexuality?
You say, “Hard for you to understand why someone that is straight would support SSM.”
No” jd”, it is not difficult to understand at all.
Just like Drug Addicts/Alcoholics,Pedophiles, etc., they defend loser issues because it is personal to them.
There is a friend/relative “dealing with the *Disease*”, so it is justified in their own little world that everyone ***Must*** sympathize and Accept their *point of view* their way or …WE !!!… the Majority are labled,,,,,,
Intolerant, Hate Speech supporting, Homosexual”phobic”, not in touch in our “Female side of Self”, Conservative So & so’s.
So, who are you protecting “jd”?!?, Son, Daughter, Wife, Neighbor,, ur closet self…….the Dog ?
When you figure IT out, jd2008jd, I’ll be here for ya’ and help you to get back in touch with reality and how ” Maine, The Way Life Should Be” still means Normality in the Traditional Family side of life.
So now let’s compare homosexuality to “Drug Addicts/Alcoholics,Pedophiles, etc” and let’s not forget about “the Dog”.
I am not “protecting” anyone…although I wish I could protect the readers from your bigoted rants…but that is up to the BDN.
Unfortunately, you are absolutely correct. Check the court cases…very rarely do you see this instance take place. Sure there has been a few national cases involving teachers, but most teenage boys are smart enough to keep it quiet. They dont want to get in trouble and appreciate the lesson. Teenage girls are far too quick to run to their girlfriends and then the rumor mill begins. I am not saying this is right, but its far from pedophilia in my honest opinion. Its not like the young man didnt know what he was getting into and the older girl forced him. Most 14 year old boys have one thing on their minds which comes with puberty. The parents should just be thankful he didnt get her pregnant and didnt catch something….and let it go. Chock it up to experience and save that poor guy some embarassment from his buddies at school.
embarrassment from his buddies at school???
The boy would have been a god in my Junior high!
we need stricter child molestation laws…..and how did a 14 year old kid get to Rockland without his parents knowing or knowing who or where/what he was doing…..the parents need a kick in the tookus….
That’s a good question.
The article is from Ct., so it looks as if she traveled down there.
So it was okay with the parents that their son had sex with someone he met online UNTIL they learned her true age. SOMEONE NEEDS TO KICK THESE “PARENTS” in the ….other brain. In the best words of Dr. Phil “what the he** were YOU thinkin’?”
A lot of kids have sex at 14, and it is different when it is within their age group. In fact 14 year olds have been having sex since the beginning of human kind.
Tell me how is it different when its in thier age group?
because of the cognitive functioning process. two equals engaged cause no or little emotional trauma. A woman and a boy, or visa-versa, causes a dysfunctional relationship…..always.
Well I do not agree with underage sex. Mental age of an adult could be much less than thier actual age. What if the man convinced the girl he was 18 instead of 21 in my eariler example man (virgin)was she girl has been around the block many times before and practically seduced him. should not the younger person be held accountable for thier actions too? It is not a perfect world . Or if an 18 year old seduced a 15 year old virgin who really did not want sex but did not force her into it. Me personally I would say they are both wrong but would feel the 18 year old commited the worse crime. He gets away free the other guys life is ruined In those examples.
Why are attempting to justify adult predators?
You missed my point completely. Why do you justify things that are wrong but not against the law?
You can’t make those kind of claims with out evidence to back them up. Pure speculation on your part.
So you think it is OK for adults and children to engage in sexual relations???
I blame the parents. You need to know what your children are doing on line all the time. Conn police going after the parents. DHHS needs to be involved.
While the parents are certainly culpable for not monitoring online gaming, it is the 22 year old woman herself who is the predator here. We are outraged when males prey on kids and should be similarly outraged at this action by a woman.
Some serious assumptions and allegations you made there. None of which could have been drawn from actually reading this article.
the other part of this that makes me take issue with the parents is that they called “after learning the woman’s “true age.” It was okay as long as she was younger? Huh?
There ya go! A taker right here.
It sounds to me that this woman didn’t try hard enough to satisfy her booty needs. All she really would have had to do was get up off the couch, head to the nearest bar, and let nature and booze take it’s course. She would have met her booty needs (legally, I might add) and would have had her drinks paid for.
Well she might have had to buy a drink first. But anyways a lot cheaper than making a road trip.
Only if they send her to a maximum security prison here in Maine. Otherwise, it’ll likely be a bubette!
Really? Did he tell you that? And to think 35 simpletons agree with you. That is what is wrong, adult female and teenage (or younger) male is OK while adult male and teenage (or younger) female is not OK.
In the real world, BOTH ARE WRONG!!!!
Well said!
Geez…little bit of sensationalism there ? Poor kid scores a cougar and the parents screw it up for him….I don’t see where plastering this girl’s face on the news serves any greater good though. How many people here, besides myself, have a “significant other” that’s 7 yrs age difference to them ?
Seven years between 20 and 27 is not a big deal. My Aunt married my Uncle when she was 18, and he was 27. The marriage lasted until his death at age 82.
The difference in cognitive functioning between a normal 14-year-old and a 22-year-old is immense. The emotional toll on the younger participant could even be life threatening.
An 18 year old can go to war a 21 year old would go to jail for the same thing. Its all about cognitive function. Did you ever think maybe cognitive function is not all about age. Many people mature much latter in life or not at all.
Reverse the rolls and make it your daughter, and answer this same question? If the Man is 22 and the teen is a 14 yr old girl, would she be scoring a Lion????
Geez…she might have to register as a sex offender for the rest of her life. Oh the hor….wait a minute…wait a minute….hold the phone…she IS A SEX OFFENDER!!
One more comment from me on this one. Rockland is a SMALL town…Does anyone have any compassion at all for the teen boy? If this gets out that his parents turned this woman in, he has got to go to school and face all the kids there about this…which can be ruthless no less. In an age where kids become depressed and do very serious things, is this really the smart way to go about this? Honestly, i believe the kid needed a good talking to about the Birds and the Bees, but the law should definately not have been called here.
The Boy was living in CT, The woman lives in Rockland.
Thanks for the correction, my bad on that. Assuming same scenario in his small town in Conn. though.
I doubt she’ll ever see prison – but having to register as a sex offender may make it harder to escape stares and glares in small town Rockland .
I just don’t get it, the bozos that shot 5 bullets at a house with 4 people in it get $2-3,000 bail (speculating this was about a drug debt). And this chick has to post $10,000 bail?
Time to close the comments on this BDN. You actually have posters justifiying that LE should not have been called. If this was a 22 year old male with a 15 year old girl these same posters would be calling for castration. Close comments now before it gets worse…
How can you people be so cruel? I often wonder whay type of parents produce children who bully other children. I think my answer is right here on this comment board. How many of you cyber-bullies would dare make half of these comments to the persons face? It’s one thing to express an opinion, but name-calling and insults is abuse. Hide behind your computers you cowards!
If I knew this woman and had the chance to speak to her about the subject the only thing I would say to her is that she should have known better and that she now had to deal with the consequences of her own actions.
Amazing that you accuse everyone of hiding and yet your own “handle” is not your name… Pot calling the Kettle black much??? Yes she is a monster, and just as much as if it had been a 21 year old male with a 14 year old girl. There is no cyber bullying in calling her out as a criminal. She has been arrested for her crime and will be found guilty in a court of law. Good enough for her… It’s NOT abuse to call a low life criminal pervert out as being exactly what they are… Hide behind your own made up name troll…
I know Rockland can be a difficult place to meet dates but is she that hard up to drive 7-8 hours to meet a 14 year old kid!!! Ooops, just answered my own question.
Would you people please tell me why if an 18 year old has sex with a 15 year old nothing is done . But if a 21 year old has sex with a 15 year old he is a sex offender for life.
Because the law is set at an arbitrary (in my view) five year window.
Well the problem with law is it dose not take all things into consideration. Next your going to try to tell me the frontal lobes of a teen is not developed yet so some other phyco mumble. I just feel if the underage person was just as willing they should be charged with a crime too. Guess then we would have to prove intent first. Might be a hard thing to do. I in no way defend this woman .
David it comes down to the law and the law says that minors cannot make certain choices in life until they reach a certain age. Sex is one of those things.
Your wrong the law lets minor make the choices. Minors do not get punished.
David here is the Maine Statue…Happy Reading.
Title 17-A: MAINE CRIMINAL CODE Part 2: SUBSTANTIVE OFFENSES Chapter 11: SEX ASSAULTS HEADING: PL 1989, C. 401, PT. A, §1 (RPR)
http://www.mainelegislature.org/legis/statutes/17-a/title17-asec254.html
Please note the ages listed.
The interesting thing in the article is that the parents only called the cops when they found out the woman was 21. So it was OK by them for their 14 year old to be sexting, calling, web camming and doing a girl when they thought she was also underage? Curious set of cafeteria morality.
Maybe it wasn’t OK with the parents, but they were not concerned with “abuse” at that point. Adults having sex with children is FAR different from children having sex with each other. Both poor choices, only one illegal.
I in know way agree with children having sex . Seems like a double standard in the law. The law needs to look at the whole picture including intent on both sides. Many younger people have been around the block a few times while the older person was still waiting in the parking lot.
The assumption that everyone seems to be making here is that it was SHE that lied about HER age, and she went down there knowing he was 14. I know darn well that’s not the case. She’s more of a victim in this case than a ‘predator’ – I’d bet she’s not the liar here.
Lisa the fact of the matter is she is an adult, the boy was a boy. What she did was illegal. She made a choice and the choice was to engage in a sexual relationship with a minor. Now she needs to “man up” about what she did.
At 14 kids should be responible and working but not in maine.They are entitled till at least 40 with dhhs support
How American of you. You do know this is a democrasy, right?
From what I’m reading, this girl is in some need of preofessional help. Unfortunately, she cant get that help because of all the cuts to mental health programming . Open your eyes people, this is a vicious cirlce! People with a mental health diagnosis need help, when they cant get that help they act out, when they act out, people generally get hurt.
Having worked in corrections for many years I can say that a majority of the people on my caseload were not getting the proper mental health care. Its a shame but its true…I have seen many instances where if the person was involved in an IOP program, had support staff, or a family that gave two craps about them…there never would have been a crime. When theres no crime…theres no victim!!!
We’re either going to pay for their room and board in jail or we’re going to pay for their mental health services…lets decide!!
I may have missed it but where exactly did these sexual encounters occur? I doubt the boy was able to come to Maine from Connecticut. If that woman traveled across state lines to have sex with a kid then she should be in Federal Custody and facing Federal Charges.
How very sad is the sanctimonious rush to judgment here, as well as the situation that leads this young woman to have her photo flashed on the front page of the newspaper and her life forever marred by charges of sexual assault. Liars on the internet abound. I’d hazard a guess that she is more likely a victim of a 14-year-old looking and claiming to be older than his years than she is a perpetrator with intentions of “injuring a minor.” The bail is outrageous when compared some of the recent drug trafficking and shooting cases.
As far as the hint of a smile in the mug shot, she’s probably laughing at herself and life’s pathetic idea of a joke: “Hah! Wouldn’t you know it– I thought I found love and passion… and he ends up a jerkwad high school freshman and I end up with a criminal record!” Where were the concerned parents when their innocent young son was fooling around online and on the phone?
I am on the bus with the double standard aspect here as so many have pointed out. I think what I would like to point out is what we are all missing in a way, it is considered vicious when a guy at 21 does this with a 14 year old girl, one because 14 year old girls lets face it are way more impressionable than a 14 year old boy, and no that is not saying no 14 year old boy is impressionable. I was 14 once and I know you were not going to convince me of the same things you would a 14 year old girl. Not being sexist in the least. Two it would be more vicious because MEN are meant to protect girls and women alike not psychologically harm them. I feel it should be the same 21 – 14, but it really is not. I think that this young lady probably has some poor self esteem and anyone, 14,15,25, 39,52 showing her attention would have made her day. I think this kid is probably some self proclaimed player and his mental state is probably above hers. Just speculating. I truly hope a good resolve for all parties considered and please BDN take her mugshot off this page, her face will be online soon enough. She is already going to go through the ringer, at least delay the process a bit.
Boy, why couldn’t I have been that lucky as a young fella. I had to buy em beer first.
Call Girl of Duty
arrest the parents of the boy…. 14 years old meeting with someone from another state from the internet this child has been totaly unsupervised for way to long i would say neglect is the word this went on for a year
If the charges are true, she should be prosecuted for the felony but they should also ticket her for being just plain STUPID.
I’m sure the woman knew she could easily get somebody her age or older. Her reasons for doing this are probably the same reasons a male pedophile would have. Just because the genders are reversed doesn’t make it any better. If the law says he’s too young to consent, the law is correct. Boys and girls his age (and younger ones) might find someone her age attractive even though they might think anybody over 30 is gross. The pervs take advantage of that. They think it’s easy pickings. They just need to pretend it’s true love to get their way. It’s nothing but predatory and exploitive behavior. I hope she gets the max sentence for it.
im willing to bet this boy could trash talk “online” like an 18 year old… and she dug it!
This is pathetic. She couldn’t find a man her own age to mess around with? 22 is not that old.. Freaking 19 would have been fine!!! But Nooooo… Had to screw a 14 year old BOY who only thinks about one stupid thing…..UGH! Did she think he was going to love her forever?? He’s just a boy so I highly doubt it! Same thing you would get from a man her age! Not only men but women too are becoming more and more sickening. I pray to god there is a special place for all of them to rot. They all know what they’re doing, Kids on the other hand just want to be “grown ups”. I’m glad she turned her self in. Lets hope she learned her lesson.
I wonder what the chat would be like here now ,if the roles were reversed, the man was 22 and the woman was 14.Would there be this low level banter and nonchalant attitude going on here. Just asking!
No it would not, it would be a lynch mob
TBH~*~* Hardly any of you know anything about the situation besides what this newspaper has told you. Which, let’s face it, they only know what they’re told.
Sorry, but the kid obviously lied about his age. He didn’t say he was 14, or 15, or whatever. He TOLD her that he was older.
That being said, I have never looked at a 14 year old boy.. or 15 or 16, for that matter, and thought ‘well damn, he looks older.. how sexy.’
THAT THAT being said, if it was that easy for him to lie about his age, and she didn’t know, many worse things could have happened! His parents could have prevented this from happening, and i think the attack on her is a desperate way to make themselves feel better for what could have been a more terrifying situation for everyone.
All in all, all parties involved are wrong. Unfortunately for this girl, she is getting the sh*t end of the deal here, because of legalities.
If you ask me, the only reason this whole case is being blown out of proportion is because of the money involved… -___-
I have known Casandra since she was a little girl & I can tell you all that this is the media, only their side of what they know, do they know the facts??? not one bit!. If you knew Casandra she is a wonderful young lady that graduated highschool, put her self through colledge, graduated colledge, she does not drink,smoke or do drugs. Casandra has a heart of gold and would do anything for anyone. Yes she has very low self esteem but not even that would push her to sleep with a 15 year old boy. The boy lied about his age, he lead her to believe he was 18 and he looked 18. His parents knew about them this whole time but they did not know her age as she did not know his true age. People need to wake up here, again I say this is the media, was you there??? no one has any right to call her names, when she found out his age she knew she was in trouble and my daughter took her to Conn to turn her self in. Now she also has a $10,000.00 bail, I know of many much worse cases where someone did much worse and did much worse than a young lady who made a mistak by beleiving he was older. If we wanna talk about discusting, I was best friends with Mark Dugas, yah all remember his name??? if not let me refresh your memory, his wife Amy Dugas stabbed him in the chest and killed him, she was known of abusing him as well as as State Troopers, by kicking them in the groin etc, she is and was back then a bad alcoholic and very,very abusive. She wen’t to jail for other prior charges after he was murdered, when the murder charge came up the courts would not allow her prior charges to be brought up, so what happened to Amy?? she was aquitted!, allowed to walk and abuse many,many more men. So all in all people make bad judjments as Casandra did, did she kill anyone? no, did she knowlingly sleep with a 15 year old? no she was lied to and she beleived him. No one is prefect if they were there would be something wrong with them, we all make mistakes, bad judgement call’s and we have to move forward. If you caould see the pain Casandra is going through right now, the shame and herrasment she is enduring due to this, if people would grow up and not judge people for what they read or hear maybe this world would be a better palce!.
You say, “Hard for you to understand why someone that is straight would support SSM.”
No” jd”, it is not difficult to understand at all.
Just like Drug Addicts/Alcoholics,Pedophiles, etc., they defend loser issues because it is personal to them.
There is a friend/relative “dealing with the *Disease*”, so it is justified in their own little world that everyone ***Must*** sympathize and Accept their *point of view* their way or …WE !!!… the Majority are labled,,,,,,
Intolerant, Hate Speech supporting, Homosexual”phobic”, not in touch in our “Female side of Self”, Conservative So & so’s.
So, who are you protecting “jd”?!?, Son, Daughter, Wife, Neighbor,, ur closet self…….the Dog ?
When you figure IT out, jd2008jd, I’ll be here for ya’ and help you to get back in touch with reality and how ” Maine, The Way Life Should Be” still means Normality in the Traditional Family side of life.
I have known Casandra since she was a little girl & I can tell you all that this is the media, only their side of what they know, do they know the facts??? not one bit!. If you knew Casandra she is a wonderful young lady that graduated highschool, put her self through colledge, graduated colledge, she does not drink,smoke or do drugs. Casandra has a heart of gold and would do anything for anyone. Yes she has very low self esteem but not even that would push her to sleep with a 15 year old boy. The boy lied about his age, he lead her to believe he was 18 and he looked 18. His parents knew about them this whole time but they did not know her age as she did not know his true age. People need to wake up here, again I say this is the media, was you there??? no one has any right to call her names, when she found out his age she knew she was in trouble and my daughter took her to Conn to turn her self in. Now she also has a $10,000.00 bail, I know of many much worse cases where someone did much worse and did much worse than a young lady who made a mistak by beleiving he was older. If we wanna talk about discusting, I was best friends with Mark Dugas, yah all remember his name??? if not let me refresh your memory, his wife Amy Dugas stabbed him in the chest and killed him, she was known of abusing him as well as as State Troopers, by kicking them in the groin etc, she is and was back then a bad alcoholic and very,very abusive. She wen’t to jail for other prior charges after he was murdered, when the murder charge came up the courts would not allow her prior charges to be brought up, so what happened to Amy?? she was aquitted!, allowed to walk and abuse many,many more men. So all in all people make bad judjments as Casandra did, did she kill anyone? no, did she knowlingly sleep with a 15 year old? no she was lied to and she beleived him. No one is prefect if they were there would be something wrong with them, we all make mistakes, bad judgement call’s and we have to move forward. If you caould see the pain Casandra is going through right now, the shame and herrasment she is enduring due to this, if people would grow up and not judge people for what they read or hear maybe this world would be a better palce!. I SO CAN NOT UNDERSTAND HOW SOME OF YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE ADULTS HERE! LOK AT YOU BULLYING,NAME CALLING, WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU! I SO PRAY THE NAME CALLERS AND PEOPLE WHO ARE BULLYING DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN! WHAT GIVES ANYONE THE RIGHT TO MAKE FUN OF HER LOOKS! SHE IS HUMAN, GET IT GOT IT GOOD! OMG!!!!