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Catholic Bishop Deeley celebrates Mass in Augusta to commemorate World Marriage Day

Community Author: Dave Guthro, Roman Catholic Diocese of Portland
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Dave Guthro | Roman Catholic Diocese of Portland
Dave Guthro | Roman Catholic Diocese of Portland

AUGUSTA—Bishop Robert P. Deeley commemorated World Marriage Day on Sunday, Feb. 10, by celebrating Mass at St. Augustine Church, during which he offered a blessing for married couples.

“Look with favor on these husbands and wives whom you have united in marriage. As they ask for your help and the protection of St. Joseph and the Blessed Virgin Mary, bless their love and commitment,” the bishop prayed.

Commemorated annually across the United States, as well as in some countries around the world, World Marriage Day is a celebration of Christian marriage which honors husbands and wives as the foundation of the family.

“World Marriage Day salutes the beauty of their faithfulness, sacrifice and joy in daily married life,” the bishop said. “World Marriage Day is an opportunity to focus on building a culture of life and love that begins with promoting and defending marriage and the family. The way, of course, in which we build such a culture is to encourage those who are married to live out the sacrament they have received.”

Bishop Deeley said that while the word vocation may bring to mind the priesthood and religious life, it’s important to remember that marriage, too, is truly a vocation.

“Just as priesthood and religious life have a purpose and a mission in the Church so, too, does matrimony. Pope Francis reminds us in the apostolic exhortation, ‘The Joy of Love’, which we have been reflecting on for the last 18 months, that Jesus’ purpose and mission for marriage and family life ‘is to bear witness to the love of God and to live the life of communion,’” the bishop said.

Couples from the Augusta area who gathered for the Mass said they embrace that mission, emphasizing the importance of keeping God at the center of their marriages.

“There is no other way to stay married. We come to church every Sunday. We include God just in how we live,” said Lisa Charette of Manchester, who has been married to her husband, Jay, for 27 years.  “Bishop Deeley spoke today about forgiveness being a big part of married life and that is the key to married life, forgiveness.”

“It’s a very special vocation. It takes a lot of work, a lot of compromising, and just keeping God in everything that we do,” said Linda Turgeon, who has been married to her husband, Andy, for 46 years.

“We reflect on how fortunate we are that we have held it together. It’s not always easy, as you know, but you live for another day and say we’re going to go through this together,” said Andy, tears of love coming to his eyes. “We raised three children, all adults now, all wonderfully married, and they’re following in our footsteps, bringing up their children in the faith, so that is a remarkable thing these days.”

“We really wanted to have that sacramental presence of God in our marriage, to invite God to be part of our marriage and also to have that witness in front of our family and friends,” said Elizabeth Keene of Farmingdale, who has been married for five years. “We want to try to reflect God’s love through our marriage.”

“That was important to us right from the start – to be able to, after we got married, find a place where we could be part of a bigger community of close family and friends, being able to reach out to people that we hadn’t even met yet to make a difference together,” said Frank Cuff, Elizabeth’s husband.

“Our marriage wouldn’t be complete without God. God brought us together, and we truly feel that through the sacrament, we get to thank God for the gift of each other,” said Amanda Harvey Turcotte, who has been married to her husband, Joe, for three years.

“I would echo the same thing. No marriage is successful without God. And I know that Amanda and I try to live by that every single day,” said Joe. “We pray together. We participate in the sacraments.”

During his homily, Bishop Deeley stressed the importance of worship and prayer and allowing Jesus into our lives, saying when we bring him our fears, brokenness and sin, we are strengthened by his forgiveness and his love, allowing us to then forgive and love each other.  

The bishop also urged the couples to live their marriages with joy, calling it the antidote to the negative attitude toward marriage often seen in our culture today.

“Show it for the beautiful thing it is in living out your marriage, loving each other, willing the good of the other, together,” he said.  

And referring to a passage from Scripture, the bishop added, “Learn from St. Peter. Keep Jesus in the boat. He will calm the seas and show you the way.”

The World Marriage Day Mass marked the end of diocese’s 18-month celebration of “The Joy of the Family,” which, as the bishop noted, reflected upon Pope Francis’ apostolic exhortation, Amoris Laetitia (The Joy of the Love)The celebration included monthly prayers, reflections, Scripture passages and suggested actions, intended to strengthen families and emphasize their importance in God’s plan.

World Marriage Day, which got its start in Baton Rouge, La., has been celebrated since 1981.  The theme each year is the same: “Love one another,” something the bishop said is more than merely a feeling.

“It is a way of life,” he said. “It is truly wanting to do what is best for one’s neighbor. And I do it because I appreciate the humanity of the other person, humanity which we believe reflects the image of God. Where is that notion of love better shown than in Christian marriage?”

During the Mass at St. Augustine Church, prayers were offered for all married couples, that their vocation of unity, love and fidelity may reflect the essence of Christ’s sacrificial commitment to his bride, the Church, and for all those who suffer from troubled of broken marriages, that they may come to know healing and trust through God’s mercy.

The Mass, which was concelebrated by the Rev. John Skehan, pastor of St. Michael Parish, which includes St. Augustine Church, was followed by a reception in the church hall.