BANGOR and CALAIS Ruby E. Fenderson, 85, wife of the late Frank Fenderson, died July 22, 2004, at a Bangor hospital. She was born Oct. 25, 1918, in Harvey Station, New Brunswick, the daughter of Frederick and Sara (Wightman) Grieve. Ruby graduated from Mount Allison University in Sackville, New Brunswick, as Valedictorian, following college she taught mathematics in St. Stephen, New Brunswick, where she met Frank at a skating rink while “White Christmas” was playing. She was married on Feb. 9, 1944. Ruby was an active volunteer and mother; she enjoyed gardening, painting, and collecting antiques. She was devoted to her husband, Frank, through 54 years of marriage until his death in March 1998. She is survived by one daughter, Carolyn and her husband, Ray Lapointe, of Glocester, R.I.; one son, David Fenderson of Veazie; her daughter-in-law, Margrette Fenderson of Veazie; six grandchildren, Kathryn Scott of St. Petersburg, Fla., Jennifer Fenderson of Springfield, Mo., Cherilyn Palmer, Catherine Stone, and Crista Fenderson, all of Sarasota, Fla., Craig Fenderson of Grande Prairie, Texas; nine great-grandchildren; a nephew, Laverne Swan and his wife, Bonnie, of Harvey Station, New Brunswick; and special friend, Mildred Butler of St. George, New Brunswick. In addition to her parents, and husband, she was predeceased by two sisters, Hazel Cameron and Doris Grieve; brother, Stanley Grieve; and her son, Robert Fenderson. A service of remembrance will be held 11 a.m. Monday, July 26, at All Souls Congregational Church, Bangor, with the Rev. Dr. James L. Haddix, Pastor and Teacher, officiating. The family invites relatives and friends to share conversation and refreshments in the Hearth Room immediately following the service. Graveside services will be held 5 p.m. Monday, July 26, at the Calais Cemetery, with the Rev. Dianne Graham, pastor of the First Congregational Church of Calais, officiating. Gifts in her memory may be sent to the Alzheimer’s Association, Maine Chapter, 163 Lancaster St., Suite 160B, Portland, ME 04101. A service of Brookings-Smith, 133 Center St., Bangor.