May 23, 2018
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How parents can communicate effectively with child’s teacher

By Robert Nickell, McClatchy-Tribune

When you think about the most important people in your child’s life, do you consider his or her teacher to be one of those people? If not, you should.

Your child’s teacher should be the third most important person to your child after you, the parents. A teacher is with your child more than you are and will leave a lasting impression on him or her. By actively working on the communication with your child’s teacher, you can help make the relationship a strong and rewarding one. A positive parent-teacher relationship helps your child feel good about school and be successful in school.

Here are a few tips to help your relationship with your child’s teacher:

— At the start of each school year, give your child’s teacher your email address plus work, home and cellphone numbers. Teachers are busy; email questions instead of calling to save the teacher time.

— Go to school conferences. I can’t stress this enough. Showing up says you’re an involved parent and that you’re open and ready to discuss your child’s learning and behavior. Let the teacher know that you view your relationship as a partnership in raising your child.

— Get involved. Volunteer in your child’s classroom or join the PTO. Being seen around the school and as a parent who participates puts you in a positive light with all school staff. In addition, it allows you to build relationships with teachers outside discussions about your child.

— A little gratitude never hurts. Show your child’s teacher you care and appreciate them. Give a small gift during the holidays and a card with a thank you note during Teacher Appreciation Week. It doesn’t have to cost a lot. It’s the sentiment and effort that count.

— Be respectful of the teacher’s time and schedule. Don’t burst in unannounced as you’re dropping your child off at school or try to have a lengthy discussion on the phone during the teacher’s lunch hour. A hungry teacher may be a crabby teacher. Email or call for an appointment. If you’re both relaxed, chances are the conversation will go much better.

Just remember, all relationships take time and work — especially the good ones.

Good luck!

Daddy Nickell

Robert Nickell, aka Daddy Nickell, father of seven, offers his five cents’ worth of advice to expectant and new parents. Daddy Nickell is the founder of, delivery room duds and daddy gear for dads, and the blog where he covers topics about parenting and the latest baby and kids gear, all from a dad’s perspective.


@2013, Daddy Nickell

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