BAYONNE, N.J. – A graveside service for Elaine C. Bulmer, who died Tuesday, Dec. 2, 2008, in New Jersey, will be held 2 p.m. Thursday, May 14, at Brewer Cemetery, Robbinston. She was predeceased by her parents, Charles and Gayle (Patterson) Bulmer Sr. Surviving are her beloved daughter, Penney Abdelwahed and her husband, Ahmed; her brother, Charles Bulmer Jr. and his wife, Sharon; her sister, Debra O’Connor; her favorite aunt, Priscilla Patterson; an uncle, Robert J. Patterson; cousin, Robert S. Patterson; niece and nephew, Shannon and Scott Bulmer; great-nephew, Jason Bulmer; many cousins and friends. Arrangements by Mays Funeral Homes, Calais and Eastport. Condolences and memories may be shared at www.maysfuneralhome.com.